Last Updated on April 12, 2023 by Laila Oliveira
I know you’re overwhelmed with the endless internet scrolling and finding no useful information. You must be thinking there must be a better way to move abroad.
There is.
Efficiently researching your new country is the key to finding reliable information. Here’s my advice…
You need to be mindful and focused when creating questions about moving abroad. Thoughtful questions will enable you to find the answers you truly need to make good decisions.
Let me explain this mindful question-and-answer process, using the very practical example of buying clothing.
No matter where you live, clothes are one of our basic needs and will be an important part of your cost-of-living budget. Luckily there is a wealth of trustworthy information out there to help. For this example, we’ll call the country you’re moving to as Country X.
Research example for Country X
Your initial question: Are clothes expensive in Country X?
This is a very broad and vague question that will give you a range of online results from baby clothes to leather boots. This answer overload will leave you confused and overwhelmed with unnecessary information.
But don’t be tempted to ask this question on social media, because you’ll get more opinions than actual facts, which again will leave you confused. To move abroad, you need reliable answers, not more questions.
Mindfully create your first question by defining the exact clothing category you want to research.
- Am I looking for basic clothing, casual clothing, outdoor wear, or more sophisticated clothes for special occasions?
I am looking to research casual clothes.
- Which brands will I research?
I will research the brands that I wear the most, Benneton and Gap.
Go to these websites in your home country and their websites for Country X. Look at the price differences. Use this source information to see for yourself if a pair of jeans are more or less expensive at Benetton or Gap in Country X than in your home country.
Now, take your newfound trustworthy answers to social media channels and ask specific questions.
- On the Benetton and Gap websites in Country X, I found jeans for xxx price. Can someone tell me their experience shopping for jeans in Country X at Benetton and Gap?
Social media will play an interesting role in helping you confirm your findings. The answers you receive will be the answers that will help you make decisions about Country X and how to reach your cost-of-living needs and goals when living there.
One more piece of advice I’d like to share…
It’s important to be mindful when we research any subject, whether it’s about clothing or even politics because we all have many cognitive biases. What I mean is that, as human beings, we all have the ability to create shortcuts in our thinking process.
Confirmation bias is one of these many biases when our minds automatically focus and absorb more information and remember more facts if they confirm what we already believe.
You may discover during your research answers that don’t match your expectations. Maybe jeans will be more expensive in Country X even though you expected all your expenses to be lower there.
Don’t ignore the evidence, no matter how tempting it may be to stick with this belief. Remember, these company websites are your best direct source of information!
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Another example to research your move abroad
This may sound unbelievable, but I’ll give you an example unrelated to travel.
It is very common during elections to have many different political polls. The answers from these polls have different results with different projected outcomes for who will win and which ballot questions will pass. All of us will retain the information from the poll that confirms the results we want or hope for from the election – a confirmation bias.
You can counteract this bias by asking others to look at your informational research. Having this outside person look at your questions and answers can help you realize if your conclusions are biased or unbiased.
This will also give you an idea of the effectiveness of your research about clothing, destination costs for moving, or whatever you need to research for your move abroad.
It’s difficult to do this research and preparation on our own, especially since sometimes we don’t even know what we don’t know.
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This article is part of our series with Deborah Dahab – a certified NLP Practitioner and fellow expat that helps her clients ease into the cultural transition that comes with relocation.
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